Why Men want SEX and Women need LOVE ...

Another book finished - Solving the mystery of Attraction " Why Men want SEX and Women need LOVE. Written by Allan and Barbara Pease. I have another 2 books written by them, gonna read it soon.

Sorry about the picture quality. Pakai camera phone jer nie...

So, what the book is all about....? Well I can say, it answers my questions about men :) ...

To find true happiness and compatibility with the opposite sex, first we need to learn how the brain is actually works!

Simple example :

What women really want : to be loved, adored, respected, trusted, needed, pampered, praised, hugged, complimented, supported, consoled, charmed, protected, embraced, worshiped

What men really want : tickets for the finals game

And obviously, men don't need love to have sex. They can segment their brain for sex or love. Compared to women, in order to have sex they need to be in love. It's actually how our brain works....it's in the genes from our ancestors.....

It is a good book I can say....as it reveal the truth about how men and women can really get along.

Rating : 7.5/10

My Homemade Shepard Pie...

Yerr....berjaya jugak aku merasmikan oven baru tuh. Dah lama dah plan nak buat....tp asik tertunggak jer. So cuti panjang hrtuh, berjaya laaa jugak kan....Siap study manual oven tuh sebelum tuh. Gigihkan jugak...sebab baru 1st time nak pakai kan...

Nie Shepard Pie ala2 Gordon Ramsay. Aku main search jer kat youtube....and pandai2 tambah sendiri. Since Ramsay nyer taruk Red Wine and Tomato Puree....aku ganti jer ngan mushroom soup and pandai2 tambah perasa sendiri.

So here are the things you need :

1. 1 packet daging kisar Ramly
2. 5 biji kentang ( direbus )
3. Sebatang carrot
4. Sebiji bawang besar
5. Seulas kecil bawang putih
6. 1 can mushroom soup
7. Seasoning - garam, thyme, pepper
8. 1 Kiub ayam
9. 1 biji kuning telur
7. Cheese : Mozarella and Parmesan

Preparation time : 10 min
Baking time : 20min at 220c

1. Ok... first masukkan minyak and tumis daging tuh. Agak2 dah kecut sket..... grate bawang besar. Agak2 bawang dah kecut grate carrot plak. Pastuh bawang putih...tumis laaa sumer, kaco2....

2. Pastuh....masukkan mushroom soup. Kiub ayam and seasoning. Raser laaa agak2 kan korang nak cemaner. Jgn biar kering sgt....biar ader gravy sket.

3. Then taruk dalam bekas....padat2 kan.

4. Pastuh, kentang yang direbus tuh....lenyek2. Tambah seasoning - salt and pepper. 1 biji kuning telur. Grate parmesan chesse...gaul semua sampai sebati.

5. Then kentang yang dah dilenyek tadi....ditaruk atas daging2 tuh. And padat2kan btol2.. Lastly grate parmesan cheese and mozarella......and cucuk sket pakai garpu kat atas dier..

Wallaaa....sudah siap. Inilah hasilnya

First time buat nie... My homemade shepard pie

 Ake sendiri rate aku nyer masakan - 5/10 .....Kena kurangkan kiub ayam tuh to separuh jer. Dah makan byk2 raser muak sebab byk sgt perasa agaknyer... Nasib baik McSteamy and Fayyadh suker boleh telan laaa and kenyang.. :P. Ok, next time will improve yer....

So here are the youtube video : Gordon Ramsay - Shepard Pie

You guys should try it. Senang jer..... :) Good Luck people..!

Uzair Fayyadh is 5!

Alhamdulillah....Harta pinjaman Allah menapak setahun lagi. Fayyadh is a big boy now.....and he has given me a joyous and wonderful 5 years journey of motherhood.

And script Fayyadh lately nie...? " Ummi, biler fayyadh nak ada adik nie..? Fayyadh boring takder geng kat umah "

Hahahhaaha....selalunye Ummi gelak jer sambil jeling2 kat uncle. Fayyadh ingat buat adik tuh macam maner....?

Macam tuh laaa. Nanti ada kat perut Ummi..... heheheheee

Fayyadh sgt, sgt, sgt petah bercakap. Kadang ader je benda2 yang membuatkan otak Ummi nie nak kena berpikir. Kadang lawak, kadang soklan2, kadang ayat penyata.....

And sgt independence. Nak2 dah tido sendiri nie..... and sebenarnya Ummi sgt kagum ngan Fayyadh. Umur 4 tahun sudah pandai tido sendiri...nak compare ngan diri Ummi sendiri....darjah 4 tido lagi kot ngan Uwan and atok... ahahahahaaaaaa :P

Even malam pun dah off diapers. Selalunya train dier pergi pee-pee before tido laa kan. Tapi kadang2 ader jugak yang dier sendiri sedar yang dier terkencing atas tilam. Selalunya akan dikesan, biler seluar tido malam sebelumnya tuh dah bertukar.

Ummi : Nie asal seluar dah lain nie...?
Fayyadh : Owhhh, seluar fayyadh basah. Fayyadh tukar laaa
Ummi : Fayyadh kencing atas tilam ker..?
Fayyadh : Aa'aahh. Sengih2
Ummi : Maner..? tak basah pon tilam...?
Fayyadh : Fayyadh dah lap dah....suar dah taruk kat dalam bakul.

Aaa kan. Dier sendiri dah tukar seluar and sendiri lap....hehehehehheee. Sgt jarang lah dier nak kejutkan Ummi kalo dier nak gie toilet tgh2 malam. And selalunya dier akan pergi sendiri...sebab nak menapak gie toilet lagi dekat dari nak pergi kejut Ummi dulu.

And selalunya bleh detect....biler dier pakai suar terbalik or suar depan belakang.... hehehheehe. Bab nak tgk seluar depan blakang tak reti lagi....selalu asal sarung jer seluar tuh...


Alhamdulillah.... I'm a proud mother!

Ingat lagi dulu maser 1st birthday.....gigi pon x tumbuh lagi, and fayyadh blom pandai berjalan. Compared to other kids yang sebaya. Risau jugak biler tgk anak2 org lain yg dah advance from Fayyadh.

But through out the years...... I learned that every people are unique. Tak perlulah nak compare2 ngan anak org lain. Anak org tuh dah pandai nie....anak org lain dah pandai tuh... Tak payah laaa nak buat stress diri sendiri...Insyaallah....the time will come kan. Tak payah laaa nak pressure kat anak. Kesian dier...

Seronok jugak biler Fayyadh dah besar nie. Ader geng untuk borak....Cakap laaa apa saja...kompem Fayyadh layan jer ...hahhhaaa

Sometimes I wonder, biler tetiba nampak Fayyadh termenung. Entah apa jugak laa yang dier pikir. And sometimes jugak aku nak tau...aper laaa yang geli hati sgt dier tgk kartun tuh sampai ketawa terkekek2....

Iyer....mmg Fayyadh dah besar. Fayyadh dah big boy. And I'm blessed that I'm there by his side.....Barakallah

Fayyadh 5th birthday... And we had a small celebration. Hehehheee, kena buli ngan Ummi and Uncle... :P

Astagfirrullahhalazim....!

Some friend shared this two video on FaceBook.

Here are the two videos :

Kekejaman tentera Israel terhadap wanita

Gaza 2009

Despite off all the political nonsenses and stupidity, economic ups and downs, government disappointment and etc - still Malaysia is at peace.

Bersyukurlah dgn keamanan dan kemakmuran negara yang dikecapi sekarang. Sekurang2 nya rakyat Malaysia tidak hidup dalam ketakutan!

a) Anak2 kecil bebas bermain diluar dan dapat belajar di sekolah dengan tenang.

b) Adik2 perempuan, isteri, ibu dan kawan2 kita tidak dizalimi sedemikian rupa.

c) Suami, ayah , abang, adik - tidak diterajang atau dipukul sesuka hati.

d) Dan kita sendiri tidak berasa takut untuk keluar bekerja mencari rezeki.

e) Dini hari kita mampu tidur dengan tenang di rumah yang selesa.

Be grateful, be grateful, be grateful.....and learn to count all the blessing. At the end of the day, you'll be surprise that your complaint list is getting lesser and lesser.

Insyaallah, Amin

Ombak Rindu Review

Ahahhahaaaa... BERJAYAAAA! AKhirnya...berjaya jugak ku heret McSteamy tgk Ombak Rindu....hehehheee.

Yang paling best....kitaorg tgk kat Ipoh Parade, last weekend...bleh...?

We went back to Ipoh last Friday, to attend McSteamy's cousin wedding. The nikah reception is on Saturday morning. And the reception is on Sunday.

So, since byk maser terluang....kitoarg curi2 ler lari gie tgk wayang. Book online ticket awal2....mcm agak kiasu kan :P

Aku terpanggil nak tgk cerita nie....sebab review from Asrol. Agak terjebak jugak biler dier kater..lakonan Maya Karin ( Izzah ) mmg best. Bukan juga sebab aku nak tgk Aaron tau..... Aku jugak x follow novel.....so mmg takkan teremo lebih2. Aku lebih tertarik nak tgk jalan cerita dier. Adakah naskah ini akan berjaya sebab diadaptasi dari novel. Harap2 tak mengecewakan seperti menonton Lagenda Budak Setan.

As for McSteamy...awal2 sudah kena gelak biler ckp nak tgk OR. Dgr tajuk pun dier dah turn off. Jiwang karat sgt katernya.....Tapi temankan bini punya pasal....maybe pasrah jer kot...! My least expectation pun, kalo dier boring dier tidor jer laaa dalam panggung tuh. Pasrah laaa untuk 2 jammm....termuntah layan citer Melayu...

However....it turn out to be....

McSteamy status update after watching the movie.

Aku gelak besar biler habis jer tgk wayang, aku terus tanya McSteamy and dier ckp OK LAH!. Yessssssss...!!! As for me, biler dier ckp Ok tuh dah macam dapat Bonus!. Susah kot nak dgr McSteamy ckp cerita Melayu ok. ....Rating dier 8/10 okay. Mmg tinggi! Infact dier adalah pengkritik utama kalo tgk aku layan cerita2 Melayu. Mmg dier sgt tak bleh blah....

So, tak payah nak ckp byk lagi....Ombak Rindu mmg best. As of  last weekend punya kutipan panggung, sudah cecah RM9 juta okay....target diaorg RM7 juta jer.

Cerita nie mmg sarat dgn emosi : Emosi Izzah ( Maya Karin), Harris ( Aaron Aziz ) and Mila ( Lisa Suriani ). Takder siapa2 pun yang merampas or perampas. Tak siapa boleh menyangkal bila hati berbicara. Tak siapa boleh melawan bila hati sudah jatuh cinta.

Siapa sangka...Harris boleh jatuh cinta dgn perempuan yang dibeli dari tempat pelacuran. Perempuan yang dier sendiri akui tidak layak dibuat isteri.....Akhirnya dier akur dan mengakui yang dier mmg terlalu sayangkan Izzah. Sgt2 sayangkan Izzah. Keegoan Harris luntur dek kelembutan dan keikhlasan Izzah.

Bagi Izzah yang mengakui dirinya hanya layak sebagai perempuan simpanan, mana mungkin timbul perasaan cemburu dan bersedih bila Harris mengahwini Mila. Baginya....dia tidak layak untuk menuntut apa2!

Bagi Mila, walaupun sudah berjaya menjadi isteri Harris....itu tidak dapat melunturkan rasa cinta Harris kepada Izzah. Tenyata cinta Harris dan Izzah terlalu agung.

Perkahwinan yang dirahsiakan juga tidak salah....kerana itulah jalan terbaik untuk menebus maruah Izzah.

Lakonan Maya Karin byk dah improve. Tapi aku sgt suka watak Harris. Lakonan Aaron Aziz mmg sgt terkesan. And aku akan sebak, tiap kali aku tgk Harris nangis. Air mata bleh buat2 okay....tapi biler Harris nangis sampai kuar air idung, itu mmg ori!

Jalan cerita yang sgt genius dan di olah dengan sangat baik oleh Osman Ali. Tahniah kepada semua crew produksi Ombak Rindu. Filem ini berjaya memartabatkan maruah filem2 di Malaysia. Jika Bollywood boleh bermegah dgn filem Mohabatein, Indonesia dengan Ayat2 Cinta...setidak2 nya aku raser Malaysia boleh berbangga dengan filem Ombak Rindu ini.

" Redha itu iklhas, pasrah itu menyerah " - Mila

Rating : 8.5 / 10

p/s : Aku tak pasti adakah Ombak Rindu ini berjaya mengeluarkan air mata jantan McSteamy... :P. Bagi aku dier x tido dalam panggung itu sudah cukup baik! hhahahahaa :D

Somaly Mam...

Never heard of her name before.

During my Hornymoon Trip to Cambodia last September, I bought this book at the airport while waiting for departure. The tittle of this book - The road of lost innocence. It's the true story of a Combodia heroine who fled sexual slavery and now devotes her life to rescuing others. Written by Somalay Mam.

I finished read this book yesterday. ( Dalam hati....ehhh cepat pulak aku abis baca buku nie. Btol ker dah abis nie.) Sambil x puas hati selak2 those pages, just to make sure I didn't missed a chapter or two.

" Sold into prostitution in Cambodia as a small child, Mam has survived a trauma that is almost beyond the imagination each of memoir....driven by a sense of purpose greater than the self, and related with a haunted directess " - Guardian

Errr....quality gamba sgt tak memuaskan. Tangkap pakai camera phone jer nie.... :P

Synopsis - In Cambodia, girls as young as five are sold into prostitution every day. Somaly Mam was one such girl. Abandoned as a baby., Somaly was lokoed after by her grandmother until she dissapeared. She was then taken into the care of a man she called 'grandfather' , but was treated no better than an unpaid servant. Raped at twelve and force to marry at fifteen, Somaly was then sold to a brothel. After years of abuse she managed to escape, and went on to co-found AFESIP to combat the sexual trafficiking of young girls and women.

Yuppp....mmg itulah yang terjadi. If you have a daughter and desperate for money....you can sell them at brothel. Bayangkan young girls....as early as 5 years old di jual jadi pelacur. Combodian people believed that if you have sex with a virgin...mcm buang sial lah kan...bleh..? The best part was, if the was a tear at the girls vagina, diaorg selamba jahit...and then kena raped lagi....

Tak cukup kena rogol....diorg siap kena belasah ngan pelanggan! Belasah ngan bapak ayam and kena kurung kalo cuba nak melawan.. Can u imagine... Mmg scaryy!!

Dah besar sket...org ajak kawin. Then kena tipu....pastuh laki jual plak kat tempat pelacuran lagi. Easy money for them...kalo ader perempuan! Mcm tuh laaa seterusnya....until you can married a rich man! Selagi kawin ngan laki miskin, selagi tuh laaa nanti kena jual balik...

It's not an easy way out. The trauma - the torture, the beating, sex slavery etc...... mmg sgt kesian biler dgt cerita dier nie...sob sob sob

Somaly Mam has become an international figure and won a Glamour magazine Woman of the Year award in 2006. She's an icon now.... From nothing, she is now something! And after what she been thru, I salute this lady for her determination and strength to help other young girls and women. She really have a BIG heart!

" I share everything they've been through. It's as if we are the same person. I wear their scars on my body and in my soul. We don't need to say much to understand one another " - Somaly Mom

Rating : 7/10

Ummi yang kiasu....

Jam sudah menunjukkan pukul 11.21pm..... Burrrrpppp. Ummi tersandar kekenyangan. Alhamdulillah.... :)

3 jam sebelumnya...

Why work sucks...?? And let's ROWE!

Akhirnyaaaaa.....abis juga aku membaca buku ini.

Thanks to my train journey, time menunggu train and time menunggu di pick up oleh McSteamy. In between time, dapat juga curi2 masa untuk membaca... :)

Bola sepak final Sukan SEA : Malaysia vs Indonesia

Rata2 rakyat Malaysia bangga dengan kejayaan skuad Harimau Muda menewaskan Indonesia dalam perlawanan akhir semalam sekaligus merangkul pingat emas buat Malaysia.

Kemenangan diperolehi menerusi sepakan penalti 5-3 setelah terikat seri 1- 1 dalam permainan yang berakhir selama 120 minit.

My unusual day...

McSteamy need to be at KL today, early in the morning. So knowing that selalunyer pagi2 akan ader scene yang terhegeh2....so I simply smsed my boss that I would like to work from home today.

Owwhh, well people can say what a lame excuse. But for me, buat aper ko nak terushing2 and create unnecessary stress. Kang kalo me or fayyadh dah lambat, kompem laaa org tuh stress kan. So sgt malas nak create scene2 di pagi yang indah ini. Plus, McSteamy will be coming back late...kang saper plak nak amik fayyadh kat school, takkan aku nak amek teksi plak kan....so seriously, malas nak pening2 kan  kepala.

Sangggul Beracun Review...

I'm not a big DIE HARD fan of Malay Movie or Drama. Sebab kebanyakkannya byk cerita sampah, meleweh2, terexploit hantu terlebey etc.

But I can say I'm a good supporter of our industry. So mana yang best...aku akan layan dan tgk....and kalo rajin buat review. Hahahahahaa

Hornymoon 2011 - Cambodia series ( Part 2 )

Owhhh....well. Where do I miss it.....???

( Dlm hati, mcm laaa ramai sgt org nak follow kan. Takper, buat sendiri for my own future reference laaaa....kot2 nak gie lagi nanti ker, or ader org tanya ker...senang. Sebab mcm kepala otak nie bleh ingat sumer kannnnnnn )

Made in Malaysia ...

Bayi 23 hari diliwat bapa kandung!

GOMBAK: Berang isteri dalam pantang enggan melayan kehendak seksualnya, seorang lelaki berusia 28 tahun bagaikan dirasuk syaitan apabila sanggup meliwat bayi lelakinya berusia 23 hari di dalam bilik di rumahnya di Taman Sunway, Batu Caves, di sini, kelmarin.

The Secret Life of Nora

Went to watch this play last Wednesday. Produced by Datin Tiara, I'm pretty excited to watch this one...

Been following Tiara's theater since PGL, PGL 2 and P.Ramlee the Musical...So this new edition is a must to watch... :) And I'm dragging along McSteamy, Elly and Apeez and Miza...

Hornymoon 2011 - Cambodia series ( Part 1 )

Yupp...just back from Cambodia end of last month. Well, what can I summed up for this vacation....??

If you can appreciate their history and arts, then Siam Reap is a good place to venture :)