Delivery 3.0

Alhamdulillah, I'm now a proud mother of  3! Such a wonderful blessings :)

My 3rd child was born on 8th August 2017 on 11.40am at Columbia Asia Cheras

Well, actually we are quite anxious for this one..

As much expected, the baby will come out at around 38weeks (like his brother and sister)...Patutnya ikut keluar awal lah jugak kan.... Mmg raser dah tak larat dah nak jalan and gie opis... so during my 36weeks++ dah banyak amek MC and stand by at home and we opted for normal delivery.

Tapi tunggu punya tunggu punya tunggu..x nak jugak baby keluar... sampai end of 38 weeks pon still takder apa2 tanda...no bleeding, no contraction etc...sampai lah ke check-up days 39 weeks on Monday 7th August 2017. Doc check and Alhamdulillah semua okay. Air ketuban cukup and BP stabil. So doc send me at labour room for CTG nak check heat beat baby... memula tuh macam x active jer baby nie, dah kena kacau baru laaa byk gerak2 and active. Contraction is very very very mild. Time nie saspen juga, sbb at the same time ada mother nak bersalin jugak kat bilik sebelah... dengar lah apa diaorg cakap semua suruh pushhhhhh......

Alamak, terus rasa cuak tetiba kannnn 😖😖

Tengah check CTG baby..fefeeling masuk labour room 

After the nurses satisfied with baby's condition, she send me back to see dr norshida...

Doc tanya, so macam mana..? Kalau nak tunggu lagi boleh sampai 40wks + 7 days
Me like..what?? Nak tunggu lagi ker...??
Takper doc, kita operate jer lah besok lah alang 8/8....

Doc : Ok boleh..jap saya check schedule...Aaaa, ok lah saya pon free, bilik OT pon kosong. So ok lah esok pagi..dalam pukul 8am pergi admission yer...

Haaaaa...kan. Hamek ko.... so 8/8 it is.... but seriously the saspen satu macam biler serah diri nie.

That night, I try to sleep...tapi macam mata susah nak lelap...takut laa, risau laaaa pikir macam2. Earlier, i didn't told the kids....just bgtau esok uwan hantar gie school, ummi ada check up. Nanti petang ummi amek macam biasa... so lepas hantar the kids at the gate, kitaorg pon gerak ke hospital....

And they prepared me for admission and OT...Ya allah, time nie rasa time sangat laa slow...semua benda pon jadi saspen

Selfie dulu sebelum masuk OT

Around 10.30am they brought me down to OT. Time baring tuh mmg fikir macam2 laaa..kalo mati macam mana dan sebagainya...this time around dah request Mr.McSteamy untuk masuk jugak OT..so dier pon siap2 jugak...

Then menunggu lagi...mmg saspen btol lah biler raser serah diri nie... tp tak ingat berapa lama tunggu kat luar tuh before they tolak me masuk dalam OT room....

Bilik sejuk and nampak lampu putih jer and terang benderang.... rasa saspen sgt..!! Both doctor dah sampai to OT room. So memula dier cucuk epidural lah... (nie last time i mmg tak ingat langsung ada cucuk ke tak kat belakang tuh). Dengan separuh telanjang tuh, doc suruh bangun and peluk bantal ke depan..... mcm tak raser sakit sgt cucuk tuh. Tau2 jer mcm boleh raser kaki dah start kebas2

Mr.McSteamy tunggu kat atas kepala jer.... doc pon dah start godek2. Dalam hati selawat jer lah...once in a while doc tanya okay ker tak. Tapi mcm boleh raser kot, biler baby dah nak keluar tuh,,sebab terasa doc tekan2 kuat sket kat situ...

Bila Doc Norshida sebut Allahuakhbar....baby pon dah ditarik keluar...Alhamdulillah. Automatic air mata keluar... And the rest of it is history

Syukur, everything went well....

Introducing my 3rd best edition - Imaad Mikael bin Mohd Razali, weight 2.99

Surprise...!! The proud brother and sister

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An Over Whelming 2013

Yerrr, mmg sgt, sgt, sgt overwhelmed. This post is supposed to be publish earlier on....but as I've said, sooooooooooooooo overwhelm sampai dah overdue.. hahahahaa

As i'm just learning to adjust my life with my co- star - Baby Luna and plus still berpantang, Abang Fayyadh pulak baru nak masuk skolah.... phewwwww mmg agak kronik.

Baby Luna 1st day at home

But, Alhamdulillah my mom was there to help me through for the first 3 weeks.

I've missed Fayyadh's orientation and also his first day at school :(. Just merisik2 khabar from my mom and Mr. McSteamy...others I just can imagine how he's doing at school.

So glad Fayyadh is doing well during his 1st day. Actually he's pretty much excited to go to school.

Fayyadh during Standard 1 Orientation day

Owhh, Fayyadh also already turn 6....since Ummi still berpatang mmg tak celebrate sgt pon. That will be postponed later okay :)

Sleep...? Dah mmg x cukup.... Bayangkan baru lepas breastfeed Baby Luna around 4am....tidur kejap and then wake up at 6am untuk siap2kan Abang Fayyadh pulak. Mmg agak pening pas tuh...

That was before.....

But now slowly I'm okay with it but still struggling.

Both need attention, mmg sumtime gune khidmat 1 tgn. Satu tgh tepuk fayyadh to sleep, satu tgn breastfeed Baby Luna...hahhaaa

Buah hati pengarang jantung sayaaaaaaa :)

But above all, I cannot make it through without support and help from Mr. McSteamy. Half of the duty menjaga Baby Luna is taken care by him, since he is the walking and standing pillow.... hhahaahaa !  If I haven't said enough - thanks luv for your help, support and understanding. Sgt sgt menghargai....

Luv, luv, luv. Our new bundle of joy ...

Till then.... babai

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Great gift in small packages... :)

Alhamdulillah, I safely delivered a healthy baby girl.

Baby Luna - a few hours after being born.

Introducing our new co-star - Luna Humaira bt Mohd Razali - born 11th December 2012 at 1.26am at Sunway Medical Center. Weight 2.67kg

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10 Tanda - tanda Anak Anda Bijak ...

Found this link and I'm sharing this with my fellow bloggers.

Source : http://scaniaz.blogspot.com
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Setiap ibu bapa akan berbangga jika dianugerahkan anak yang bijak, lebih-lebih lagi genius. Walaupun demikian, di mata ibu bapa, semua anak-anak mereka adalah bijak. Biar pun bukan semua anak dianugerahkan bakat untuk menjadi seorang yang Genius, namun masih terdapat beberapa panduan untuk mengukur sejauh mana bijaknya anak-anak anda. 10 tanda-tanda yang menunjukkan anak anda itu seorang yang bijak :-  

1. Mengekalkan Maklumat 
Jika kanak-kanak biasa bagaikan ‘masuk telinga kiri, keluar telinga kanan’ apabila diajar. Anak anda boleh dikatakan bijak jika mereka mampu menyimpan maklumat dan boleh mengingatinya pada masa yang lain. Minda kanak-kanak umpama span yang akan menyerap segala apa yang dilihat dan diajarkan kepadanya. Disebabkan itulah kita digalakkan mengajar anak-anak sejak dari usia kecil. Melentur buluh, biarlah dari rebungnya.

2. Minat yang meluas
 Minda anak yang cerdas mungkin menunjukkan minatnya terhadap pelbagai topik di sekelilingnya. Bulan ini mungkin dia minat Dinasour, bulan depan pula angkasa lepas, bulan berikut pula topik yang lain dan begitulah seterusnya.

3. Membaca dan Menulis di awal usia
Anak anda boleh dikatakan seorang yang bijak jika dia mampu membaca dan menulis di awal usia biar pun tidak melalui pengajaran yang formal.

 4. Berbakat dalam seni muzik dan artistik
 Kanak-kanak yang boleh memaparkan bakat luar biasa dalam muzik atau seni seringkali dianggap berbakat.

5. Menunjukkan Konsentrasi 
Kanak-kanak biasa tidak diketahui tahap konsentrasinya biar pun dalam tempoh panjang, sebaliknya kanak-kanak yang bijak ini sentiasa menunjukkan konsentrasinya terhadap sesuatu.

6. Mempunyai ingatan yang baik
Sama seperti tanda No 1, sesetengah kanak-kanak boleh mengingati perkara-perkara yang mereka lakukan sewaktu mereka masih kecil.

7. Susun kata yang maju berbanding usia 
Kanak-kanak yang bijak berbicara ketika kecil jika kita sering berbual dengannya menggunakan ayat dan perbendaharaan kata sepertimana orang dewasa, akan cepat menyerap dan memahami apa yang dibualkan orang yang lebih dewasa. Misalnya anak-anak berusia 2 tahun akan berkata ‘Itu kucing’, sebaliknya anak-anak bijak ini akan berkata ‘Itu Kucing yang garang yang suka membuat bising di rumah kami’. Berbeza bukan?

8. Memberi perhatian yang terperinci
Kanak-kanak yang berbakat ini dapat mengingati dan peka dengan keadaan di sekelilingnya. Misalnya mampu untuk menyimpan barang permainannya di tempat ianya diambil. Atau menyedari jika sesuatu barang kesukaannya itu berubah kedudukan dan sebagainya.

 9. Bertindak sebagai pengkritik dirinya
Kanak-kanak di usia kecil tidak terlalu bimbang apa yang berlaku terhadap dirinya mahu pun orang lain, asalkan dia dapat apa yang dimahukannya. Sebaliknya kanak-kanak yang bijak akan bersikap berlawanan dan mengambil berat apa yang berlaku terhadap orang lain, tetapi apa yang lebih penting adalah dirinya.

10. Memahami konsep yang rumit
Kanak-kanak yang cerdas berkemampuan untuk memahami sesuatu perkara yang rumit, melihat hubung kait antaranya, dan berfikir secara abstrak. Mereka juga dapat memahaminya secara mendalam dan berfikir tentang jalan penyelesaiannya.

 p/s – Berbanggalah dengan anak-anak anda. Semua kanak-kanak adalah bijak, terpulang kepada kita sebagai ibu bapa untuk mencorakkannya.

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SpongeBob DIY Costume ...

Remember on my last post on Kids DIY Costume Party ?

Well last minute plan, we've decided to do Sponge Bob Costume instead .... :)

Sponge Bob sample reference that I found online

So what do you need...? Easy.....All you need to have are Boxes, Paint, Masking tape, Tools : Scissors and Blade and also Felt ( optional )

The box : After we have taken Fayyadh's measurement

Some of the paint used. Acrylic and Spray

Then, we beautify the edges using the masking tape.

Next, we sprayed white color as first coating.

Then, followed with Yellow and Brown color....according to the SpongeBob shirt and pants color. Next we paint the eyes, mouth etc.

As a finishing touch, we used felt as the tongue, the necktie and also the belt. The option is yours, whether to paint of using felt, but I think using felt is easier and faster.

So, here are the end result

Tadaaaaaaa.....!!!!

Fayyadh getting ready for his costume party...

And one happy and  satisfied customer.... ahahahahaha :D

Owhhh, tak satisfied sgt lah. He complained two things :
a) Tie tuh should be shorter
b) The hole is supposed to be in green color not orange

Ahahahaaa, sgt detail jugak mata Fayyadh nie. Ingatkan dier tak kisah,,,kisah rupanya...ihihihihih

100% hand made and paint by Mr.mcSteamy. Thank luv! Really appreciate it. Ummi just potong and tampal felt jer....

And we had so much fun preparing the costume.....Tgk fayyadh sgt happy and dengan bangganya showing off the costume. The reward is priceless...!!

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Travelling to Resort World Sentosa - Part 2

Ok...where I left it...??

Ok....dalam bus. Mmg sangat puas hati dgn bus tuh....sgt selesa. Next is the immigration.

Overall view inside the bus

 Kalo naik kereta tak payah turun naik...duduk jer dalam kereta. Tapi since naik bus, kena laaa naik turun....2 check point immigresen yer. 1 Malaysia punya, and satu lagi Spore punya...

Tapi takder laaa susah sgt pon...since byk kaunter. Just kalo travel bwk stroller, agak leceh sket lah, kena bawak turun bagai....diaorg nak check...other than that, I'm glad and happy that both immigration are very efficient...lebih kurang 10 - 15 minit laaa at each check point..then settle and cleared...mmg cepat. Maybe sebab naik public transport kot. They have proper parking for busses and also clean pathway for the passengers....

Travelling to RWS took about 1 and half hrs rasernya. Bus sampai terus ke basement bawah. And tak susah nak cari exit from the basement to USS

Naik jer escalator nie....blakang tuh trus USS entrance.

So, since we all dah beli ticket online siap2....so terus jer laa masuk, scan the tiket. Tp perlu diingatkan...kalo ader budget lebih elok laaa beli Express Passes...tak payah laaa menunggu nak beratur lama....tp sebenarnya USS pon tak lah besar sgt kan...setakat beratur 10-15 mins to agak reasonable laaa...sambil2 tuh boleh amek gamba kan...

Kan....the long queue at Madagascar : A Crate Adventure. But it's okay, fast moving

Next we all jalan2 kat Far Far Away. Again, a long queue jugak nak tgk the Shrek 4-D Adventure tuh. Ada jugak rides, tapi sgt x mencabar - Enchanted Airways ala2 junior roller coaster..

Us infront Far Far Away Castle ...

Luckily, we all sempat to catch WaterWorld show at The Lost World. Tapi semua orang pon agak kiasu dah beratur panjang giler depan the gate entrance, infact 45min before... mmg kiasu. Tapi actually muat jer...besar giler tempat tuh....

Behind is the WaterWorld setup and props

Next, kitaorg layan the main most attraction! - Battlectar Galactica rides....yang mmg laaaa sgt menyeramkan... Since ada Fayyadh, so we all pon bergilir laaa kan..take turns. So lepak2 laaa sambil menunggu, amek2 gamba.... Inilah hasilnya :P

Jgn tiru aksi ini dirumah, Lagak ini dilakukan oleh pelakon lagak ngeri profesional

Luckily Mr. McSteamy rajin nak teman aku naik rides...eventho I knew that dier mmg tak minat ngan aktiviti adrenalin rush nie kan.. Mmg scary you olssss...!! Ingatkan nak naik dedua....tapi satu tuh pon dah raser lutut longgar sudaa kan.... Agak2 laaa sedar diri awak tuh mak orang kan...tak yah nak feeling2 cam org bujang! Ekekekkeeeee

Sempat laaa tangkap muat amek gamba ngan mamat nie.....Err saper ekk...?? Heheheheee

Sempat jugak kitaorg naik rides - Revenge of the Mummy at the Ancient Egypt. Rides nie mmg sgt2 menarik...Naik rides dalam gelap..tak tau maner nak pergi...atas ker bawah ker kiri ker kanan...hahaaa.. Mmg saspenn!

Unfortunately, by the time kitaorg nyer trip nie Transformer rides x siap lagi.....Harus repeat lagi kan

 Sempat laa merasa night view dekat Hollywood tuh...malam lagi cantik rasernya, sebab baru nampak lampu2 semua. Baru laaa feel ala2 Hollywood gitu

Us...fooling around :P

 All in all...okay jer. Feel dia biasa2 jer....maybe sebab dah pergi Movie World and Sea World last time. Rasernya tuh lagi best. Tapi rasernya USS nie agak kecik laa...raser cam sesak jugak..entah laaa...nie bukan peak hrs kan, kalo peak hrs mcm maner tah.... Janji dah merasa dtg USS kan...yang penting Fayyadh happy. After all, it's a good and quality time outing with the family :)

Us...before we end the day :)

 Since the bus will be departed at 10.30pm... ( bus depart from JB is at 10.30am ) so we have a few hrs to mingle around the RWS around. Dapat lah jugak tgk the Crane Show...agak menarik laaa with the sound and lighting etc.. Boleh jalan2 dekat the nearby shop..mcm2 laa ada. Hard Rock pon ada...so boleh laaa lepak makan2 or minum2 dulu...

Us yang dah kepenatan....while waiting for the bus at the basement

The End ...

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Travelling to Resort World Sentosa - Part 1

Ok...nie mmg post yang dah basi giler....berkurun okay. Tapi since ada yang tanya macam mana aku masuk Singapore dulu....and aku menghadapi masalah nak mengingat, so better i write it down here.... ( and again...apa2 senang nak refer )...ekkekekkekeee

Rasenyer we went there last year kot....cuti Deepavali last yearr bulan 10.. ! ( kan dan ckp mmg dah basi + berkurun ) Opsss...almost setahun baru hapdate...ahahaha

The whole rombongan Cik Kiah enjoying the Water World show..

Ok..ticket nak masuk USS dah book siap2 Online. Rasernya time kitaorg pergi bukan time peak hours...so entrance tix tak mahal sgt.

Since we all tak berapa familiar jalan kat Spore and mcm tak sure the process, documentation needed kalo nak drive sendiri etc so kitaorg planned untuk naik public transport. Plus kalo drive maybe agak costly untuk the passes and parking etc...

So adalah a few option yg terpikir time tuh :
a) Naik cab : based on last time masuk Spore kena naik 3 cab! 1 from hotel to JB teksi terminal. Pastuh kena naik another teksi yang bawak masuk S'pore.  Last sekali dah sampai Spore, kena tukar amek Spore cab. So since this time we are travelling in bigger group...so agak masalah plak nak tukar2 cab nanti. So option nie agak menyusahkan

b) Cari kereta sewa : Mahal. Plus tak sure jalan kat Spore and costly

c) Naik bus. Tapi rasernya kena tukar2 gak nanti...so raser sgt leceh dan menyusahkan!

So survey punya survey...ada coach bus - Odyssey Coach to RWS yang amek passanger from Tune Hotel, Danga Bay.

Info on Odyssey Prestige Coach Sdn Bhd :
Tunes Hotel Danga Bay,
Sentosa - Johor Bahru
Lot PTB 22819, Jalan Skudai Mukim
Phone : 017 718 5022 / 07 2323092
So boleh contact no nie for further confirmation.

Return tix for adult is RM 23.00 and for kids RM 9.00. Tapi kena beli siap2 biler booking online kat Tune Hotel.

Since duduk pon kat Tune Hotel jer...kitaorg pon sampai agak malam. Ingatkan sumer dah kawtim etc, tp biler check in tuh baru diberitahu yang for that ticket bus, kena gie confirm kat outlet diaorg k amek ticket etc. Tp sbb dah malam sgt kedai pon dah tutup...

Memula agak angin laa..ingatkan dah settle pasal transport, sebab ingat dah bayar etc. Rupanya2 kena collect tix bus tuh kat kaunter bus Odyssey jugak. Ok lah, pasrah laaa jugak tunggu sampai esok pagi..

So since Im the organizer...pagi2 lagi sudah turun bawah ke kaunter Odyssey Nasib baik dekat bawah jer kann. Basically diaorg ader a few trips as early as 8.30am. But since kitaorg dah lambat...the only available ticket yg ada is 10.30am....Ok laaa tuh kan..sempat laa breakfast at nearby shop and kemas2 barang for check out. Kereta mmg kitaorg tinggalkan kat situ jer....since the bus pon akan drop we all kat situ jugak nanti...so suda save tuk parking and agak selamat ngan barang2 semua.

Family photo - while waiting for the bus

Inside the bus. Sgt puas hati sebab sgt selesa and cantik and senonoh.. :P

To be continued ...

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Mangsa ragut ...

Ok laaa...kisah nie bukan berlaku kat aku....tp jadi kat mak aku. Last week, Selasa malam...

Received a call from my mom dalam pukul 10 .45pm cam tuh.... " Nasib mama tak baik laaa hari nie" intro my mom .....

So biler dah tau citer panjang lebar....terus laaa bergegas balik Gombak. Dier dah pergi klinik and dah buat polis report. Janji jumpa kat kedai makan...sebab dier lapar...

Otw to Gombak tuh saspen jugak....sebab katenya muka lebam2 kena tenyeh2 ngan perompak tuh.. Haissshhhhhhhh....geram jer dengar kan..

So synopsis kejadian :

Lebih kurang pukul 9.40 tuh my mom sampai rumah.  So bukak gate nak parking kereta. Pada masa yang sama, kelihatan 2 orang berbangsa India menaiki sebuah motor berhenti di sebuah rumah jiran yang juga berbangsa India ( selang serumah ). Sangkaan my mom motor tuh nak jumpa neighbour tuh laaa kan tanpa rasa curiga apa2...

So selepas memasukkan kereta...my mom keluarlah dari kereta seperti biasa. Dan pada ketika itulah, salah seorang yang berada atas motor itu turun, berjalan ke arah my mom dan merentap beg tangannya. My mom menjerit dan melawan balik dari begnya direntap. Ketika itulah dier terseret dan terjatuh dihadapan rumah jirann sebelah. Perompak yang masih tidak berjaya itu, menolak2 muka my mom untuk mendapatkan beg...sehingga laaa tali beg itu terputus. Kebetulan ada jiran2 sebelah yg terdengar jeritan my mom dan keluar melihat apa yang berlaku....perompak itu terus melarikan tanpa berjaya dengan sebarang hasil.

Alhamdulillah....syukurrrrrr.  Takda apa berlaku tuh my mom. Just muka my mom jer bengkak2... Beg tak kena ragut, takder apa2 yang hilang. Just tali beg jer terputus.... Syukur sangat2

Mmg geram....tak boleh nak bayangkan my mom terseret sampai terduduk dekat jalan. Melawan jugak laaa dier, tak nak lepaskan beg tuh...tuh yg sampai terjatuh agaknya....

I just wonder. Sejahat2 peragut masih punya hati dan perasaan. Apa pulak peragut tuh rasa, kalo org lain buat macam tuh kat mak dier...

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Good news. Alhamdulillah ... :)

By the time I wrote this, I'm already into my 27 weeks of pregnancy :) .... Alhamdulillah syukur

Babymooning 2012 - Bali. 1st Anniversary and 23rd weeks of pregnancy

 Bukan nak surprise ker haper...takder masa nak update ler....sedar2 dah nak masuk end of 2nd trimester.

So far Alhamdulillah, my pregnancy went smoothly like last time. No morning sickness, mual2, loya2, pening etc....Selera makan pon mcm normal, basically boleh belasah jer makan apa...

Syukur sangat2..sebab tak sangka boleh conceive in less then 1 year. Yer laaa, time Fayyadh dulu bukan main lama nak tunggu....Alhamdulillah, rezeki kan

Early this year, dah agak risau....sebab period agak delay for the first quarter. Dah macam lari2 date dier...so camner nak tgk time subur kan, sebab asik tak consistence...tp lantakkan jer laaa, as long as period..dari tak period langsung like last time.

So for that month....mmg dah delay about 7 days. Malas nak stress tak pasal2...ingatkan nak check bila dah delayed 10 days. But then one day, while looking at my tummy.. this little ahli nujum said to me " Ummi, Fayyadh raser dalam perut ummi nie ada baby lah "....

Ahahahaaa, malas nak mengharap apa2...I just senyum and jawab " Yer ker Fayyadh ? " Fayyadh pon senyum jer. Dalam hati dah bunga2...tp malas nak harap apa2...yer lahh a few previous month dah mmg delay....so biarkan jer laaa kan. Malas nak layan perasaan. Told McSteamy about this....yg Fayyadh cakap ada baby dalam perut....dier pon sengih2 jer.....

So next morning, wake up as usual to go to office. Saja gatal nak pergi pee on the stick ( kebetulan mmg ada extra simpan )....and to my surprise, I saw the 2 lines! Agak terkemam, terkesima semua ada... I didn't woke up the boys.....

Senyap2 I turun bawah....bring the stick sambil layan a cup of nescafe..... sambil melayan perasaan sorang2 tgk the stick....mcm tak percaya this is happening! Setelah menyedarkan diri dan mengakui yang this is happening, I broke the news to McSteamy and Fayyadh. He was so happy.... Fayyadh lagi lah excited!....But awal2 ckp nak baby boy

So we went to the clinic to make further confirmation.....and at that moment I'm already 5 weeks pregnant.. :)

Breaking the news...!

Thank you, Allah.....syukur :). Permudahkan lah semuanya.....

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Aidilfitri 2012

It's not easy to have a decent family photo ... :P

Ada jer yang tak kena ...!

So, I settled down for this...! :)

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Where Did I Come From ?

Sekarang tgh kecoh laaa kan pasal benda nie sebab dikatakan mempunyai unsur2 ilustrasi lucah yang x sesuai untuk kanak2.


First publishes in 1973 and written by British author - This book is about the reproductive process from intercourse to birth through cartoon illustration with narration about reproduction p

Where Did I Come From?.. The facts of life without any nonsense and with illustration is available at leading bookstores and was sold over 2 million copies...

I haven't bought the book. Tapi biler dah jadi macam nie raser nak beli plak... Why..? Sebab seriously I want to know how Fayyadh will react to this.

First of all...does kids know meaning about lucah and sex...?? It's adult yang bagi those term. And seriously, turn on ker tgk gamba katun2 nie...

Tajuk pun - Where did I come from...? Which is soklan yang Fayyadh selalu tanya. And end up I'll lost words how to explain to him. Tak kan nak jawab Fayyadh kuar ikut p***. Nak jawab cam tuh ker....?? Then of coz laaa kena ader cerita and illustration pasal human reproductive system kan, baru laa paham the whole story.

C'mon people...GROW UP please!....tak payah laaa nak sensitif tak tentu pasal kot ( especially typical Malays ). Apa masalah...? It's sex education....it's good untuk budak2 tahu and obviously that is what the author is trying to do... EDUCATING! Bukan LUCAH ngokksss. Open up your mind..jgn laa narrow minded  sgt.

Surely before the author wrote this book, he has done all sort of research on the narration, the best words to describe and appropriate illustration and the impact on sex early education. Personally, i don't think the author just simply do and put those words or picture without knowing the impact...2 millions copies sold....I'm pretty sure this is a good book.

Sex education is not a taboo okay. If we cannot be telus with our kids....it'll make them lagi curious to know more, by cari solution yg lain or experiment with themselves...lagi bahaya aku raser kan.

Of course, parental guidance is needed while sharing this book with our kids. Explain to them well. Sebaik mungkin...kenapa nak malu2...?

I agreed with owner of this blog :  " Maybe the book isn’t such a bad idea. After all, the only reason it feels awkward is because we make it awkward in the first place. Surely children will not have sexual tendencies at such tender an age as five? Or will they? If anything, it is the adults that we need to worry about "

Mmg sgt setuju....!

Poll: Would you allow your child to read this book?


p/s : Dengar2 cerita - saper yang menjual buku ini akan ditangkap!....ahahahaa, aku raser ada ramai lagi org lain yang "berhak" ditangkap. Bukan penjual buku.... :P

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Where the new journey begin ... :)

Ok2....sila jgn salah anggap. Tujuan saya menempelkan video ini adalah untuk ingatan diri sendiri. Sebab pembikin video nie....download dekat youtube bukan dekat FB. So satu kerja plak nak mencari link tuh kan...

So, aku tempel laaa disini.... supaya senang nak cari in future. Hehhehheeee. Sila jgn termuntah yer ( sbb bukan mode pengantin baru sgt pon! ) :P

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Uzair Fayyadh is 5!

Alhamdulillah....Harta pinjaman Allah menapak setahun lagi. Fayyadh is a big boy now.....and he has given me a joyous and wonderful 5 years journey of motherhood.

And script Fayyadh lately nie...? " Ummi, biler fayyadh nak ada adik nie..? Fayyadh boring takder geng kat umah "

Hahahhaaha....selalunye Ummi gelak jer sambil jeling2 kat uncle. Fayyadh ingat buat adik tuh macam maner....?

Macam tuh laaa. Nanti ada kat perut Ummi..... heheheheee

Fayyadh sgt, sgt, sgt petah bercakap. Kadang ader je benda2 yang membuatkan otak Ummi nie nak kena berpikir. Kadang lawak, kadang soklan2, kadang ayat penyata.....

And sgt independence. Nak2 dah tido sendiri nie..... and sebenarnya Ummi sgt kagum ngan Fayyadh. Umur 4 tahun sudah pandai tido sendiri...nak compare ngan diri Ummi sendiri....darjah 4 tido lagi kot ngan Uwan and atok... ahahahahaaaaaa :P

Even malam pun dah off diapers. Selalunya train dier pergi pee-pee before tido laa kan. Tapi kadang2 ader jugak yang dier sendiri sedar yang dier terkencing atas tilam. Selalunya akan dikesan, biler seluar tido malam sebelumnya tuh dah bertukar.

Ummi : Nie asal seluar dah lain nie...?
Fayyadh : Owhhh, seluar fayyadh basah. Fayyadh tukar laaa
Ummi : Fayyadh kencing atas tilam ker..?
Fayyadh : Aa'aahh. Sengih2
Ummi : Maner..? tak basah pon tilam...?
Fayyadh : Fayyadh dah lap dah....suar dah taruk kat dalam bakul.

Aaa kan. Dier sendiri dah tukar seluar and sendiri lap....hehehehehheee. Sgt jarang lah dier nak kejutkan Ummi kalo dier nak gie toilet tgh2 malam. And selalunya dier akan pergi sendiri...sebab nak menapak gie toilet lagi dekat dari nak pergi kejut Ummi dulu.

And selalunya bleh detect....biler dier pakai suar terbalik or suar depan belakang.... hehehheehe. Bab nak tgk seluar depan blakang tak reti lagi....selalu asal sarung jer seluar tuh...


Alhamdulillah.... I'm a proud mother!

Ingat lagi dulu maser 1st birthday.....gigi pon x tumbuh lagi, and fayyadh blom pandai berjalan. Compared to other kids yang sebaya. Risau jugak biler tgk anak2 org lain yg dah advance from Fayyadh.

But through out the years...... I learned that every people are unique. Tak perlulah nak compare2 ngan anak org lain. Anak org tuh dah pandai nie....anak org lain dah pandai tuh... Tak payah laaa nak buat stress diri sendiri...Insyaallah....the time will come kan. Tak payah laaa nak pressure kat anak. Kesian dier...

Seronok jugak biler Fayyadh dah besar nie. Ader geng untuk borak....Cakap laaa apa saja...kompem Fayyadh layan jer ...hahhhaaa

Sometimes I wonder, biler tetiba nampak Fayyadh termenung. Entah apa jugak laa yang dier pikir. And sometimes jugak aku nak tau...aper laaa yang geli hati sgt dier tgk kartun tuh sampai ketawa terkekek2....

Iyer....mmg Fayyadh dah besar. Fayyadh dah big boy. And I'm blessed that I'm there by his side.....Barakallah

Fayyadh 5th birthday... And we had a small celebration. Hehehheee, kena buli ngan Ummi and Uncle... :P

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Ummi yang kiasu....

Jam sudah menunjukkan pukul 11.21pm..... Burrrrpppp. Ummi tersandar kekenyangan. Alhamdulillah.... :)

3 jam sebelumnya...

I took 8.00pm train from Kl Sentral. And as usual, McSteamy will pick me up at Terminal Bersepadu.

Our normal conversation :

Me : Nak makan kat ner...?
McS : Rajin tak nak masak....?
Me : Hummm...bleh jer. Nak makan aper...Ader udang ngan daging. Masak udang lah..daging kang lambat plak nak tunggu lembut. Tapi nak kena gie beli sayur.
McS : Okay....

Dlm kepala otak aku dah pk menu. Masak lemak cili api udang, kacang botol goreng berlada, ikan masin and telor dadar for fayyadh. Yummiieeehhhhhhhh :P

Nak jadi cerita...jammed teruk depan tol mines tuh.....sampai umah dalam kol 9 lebih. Start masak dalam kol 9.30....and we had our family dinner nak dekat2 kol 11pm, bolehhhhh ....?

Haaaaahaaa...since aku suda masak beria.. Haruslah makan satu family bersama kan. Kerja akan jadi lebih byk sebab nak kena hidang bagai...and ulang2 dari dapur ke meja makan. Yer laaa, nama pon dah makan berhidang....lantaklah, kol 11 pon sebelas lah kan...mmg kiasu..! Kalo kol 11 makan...kol baper nak tido...? Kol baper plak nak abis kemas...

Tapi ku gagahkan jua...walaupun aku tahu akan ader byk kerja mengemas selepas itu....

Penat lelah masak dan berkemas di dapur raser cukup berbaloi2, biler dpt makan bersama2 bertiga kat umah. Makan pon lagi puas sebab makan kat umah...for me, it's a quality time with my family. Seronok tgk McSteamy makan bertambah2. Seronok jugak layan keletah fayyadh bercakap...

Aku raser moment nie sgt special....sebab semua org dpt kumpul makan sesama. Kalo x, ummi kat bawah, McSteamy kat opis, fayyadh main game or tgk TV. Masing2 wat hal sendiri....walaupun dok satu umah :D

And i thanked God for this wonderful moment.... :)


So here i am...updating blog sambil senyum kepuasan dan kenikmatan...

Ok,gtg....byk lagi kerja menanti selepas ini.... :p

Nite2 people..!

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My unusual day...

McSteamy need to be at KL today, early in the morning. So knowing that selalunyer pagi2 akan ader scene yang terhegeh2....so I simply smsed my boss that I would like to work from home today.

Owwhh, well people can say what a lame excuse. But for me, buat aper ko nak terushing2 and create unnecessary stress. Kang kalo me or fayyadh dah lambat, kompem laaa org tuh stress kan. So sgt malas nak create scene2 di pagi yang indah ini. Plus, McSteamy will be coming back late...kang saper plak nak amik fayyadh kat school, takkan aku nak amek teksi plak kan....so seriously, malas nak pening2 kan  kepala.

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Battle in the kitchen.....!

Last Saturday rumah aku diserbu oleh family from Rawang - 3 bijik kereta. Diaorg dtg makan lunch kat umah....
Aaaaa... Panik aku sekejappp....bukan masalah x bleh masak nak jamu diaorg kan....

Masalahnyer ialah :

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I mean..... really? Really, really, really...???

How much can you actually stuff in food for bukak puasa during buffet...??

I'm so NOT a buffet lover...sebab aku tau aku tak makan byk ponnnn.....

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This is called family planning.....

Ececehhhh...baru kawin dah nak family planning...??  Ahahahhahaaaaa :P

NO LAH....not that kind of family planning....abis tuh aper ...??

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The boy who don't want to celebrate his besday...

My new year baby turns 4 this year. We celebrated it a bit late...2 weeks later on 15th Jan at KFC Wangsa Maju..

Unfortunately, the besday boy is not so keen to celebrate his own birthday. Check out this video :

Sib baik, dier nak jugak tiup lilin tuh.. ahahahaa :P

For this time around, I ordered a cake from my dear friend Aida. You can check out more cakes at : Oven Heaven blog and Oven Heaven Facebook

And the cake is superbbb..!! And taste nice too :)

Some pic during Fayyadh 4th's birthday bash.

My baby boo turns 4..!

Tgk, hanna lagi excited. Besday boy tak nak dok atas kerusi langsung

Present from Chicky...!

Dah tak sabar nak bukak present

Aaaa..gado2 manja ngan Hanna gitu

My darling fayyadh, no matter how fast you grow, you'll always be my little baby... Lu, Lu, Lu..!!!!

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Another visit to emergency ward...

Yupp..it's not me.. and not Fayyadh..

It's my dad...

Im 31 years old...and my dad almost 67 years old. And this is first time ayah admit masuk spital...emergency lagi.

I'm seeing my father as a healthy person. He quit smoking 15 years back, and after that without failed he'll jog everyday early in the morning after subuh prayer..

And personnally...I think my dad sgt fit...still hensem, macho, perut tak buncit...
Sgt jarang sakit....in fact nie laaa first time ayah warded...

Just pagi tadi...i'm so shocked..ayah collapsed time nak gie jogging. And seriously dier tak sedar cam ner dier jatuh...

Tanya ayah ader raser nak pitam2 ker...takder dier jawab. Kalo pening ayah berenti laaa tepi, dier cakap...nie tak...tup tup terus jatuh okay

Sib baik ader org nampak dier terbaring kat tepi jalan tuh bwk pie spital..
So far..blood pressure stabil, darah pun okay..Dah berjahit laaa kat dahi, bawah kening and kaki..

Since dah terhentak kat kepala...doctor advise to monitor progrees...tapi tuh laa, dah tua2 nie, jatuh collapsed pulak kan...me just praying that he can recover soon..

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Pengalaman jaga ayah kat spital...

Yer laaa dah tua2 nie mmg tak merengek bagai laaa kan...nak2 kiter pon dah besar, mmg dah tak rapat sgt ngan ayah kan...

Tapi tuh laaa...dier tak byk ckp...tanya ayah nak air, senyap...tapi bila bagi air, suapkan makan...nganga jugak mulut

Mungkin dier pun segan nak ckp...tak nak menyusahkan anak2...aku lapkan kepala ayah, bersihkan darah2, bersihkan kaki dier, pakaikan ayah baju....

Mungkin dia tak mintak dibelai....but deep down..mestilah nak org jaga kan...

So next time, if korang kena jaga ayah yg sakit...jgn tanya byk2 soklan, buat lah apa2 yang patut...like if we are in their shoes..

Even though nampak dier cam tido jer, takder perasaan - pendek kata still control macho laa kan....tp sebenarnya dier still nak org ader sebelah dier...

Deep down...i think dier pun takut... so what we need to do is to be there and support him...

Aku siap bleh buat lawak...err, ayah nak jalan ker..? Naiklah wheel chair..biler lagi nak raser...Dier pon tak ckp byk...duduk jer kena sorong...aaaaa, tuh dier gatal sgt ckp kan..Berat jugak nak tolak..hahahaa :P

Aper2 pon, i'm praying for his best...Insyaallah..

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