Drama Bersiri Adam & Hawa ...

Ok...aku terjebak tgk citer ini. Tatkala org dah tgk episod ke 30...aku baru terhegeh2 nak setat!

So, last weekend aku pulun tgk citer ini online back2back.  So saper2 yg nak tgk boleh cek it out link nie: http://dramaonlineuntukanda.blogspot.com/

Sehingga hari nie aku dah dah tgk sampai episode 32.

Dan aku agak kecewa dengan watak Ain Hawani.....aku cuba nak paham apa yg cuba disampaikan oleh pengarah untuk watak Ain nie...

Awal2 cerita...Ain digambarkan sebagai seorang wanita yang ada cita2 tinggi, ada matlamat. Ain berjaya melanjutkan pelajaran ke luar negara, sambung buat Master and then berjaya jadi pensyarah...

Pendek kata dier well educated!

Tapi aku tak paham...kenapa Ain agak bodoh taknak make herself clear about her own status. Boleh selama 8 tahun, Ain sendiri tak tau apa status dia - bini org or single? And tak amek kisah nak tau...hidup dalam berteka teki. At the same time bagi hope dekat Johan...? Apakah kannnn? Sibuk ckp pasal nak move on...the only thing she good at is running away!

Next...Ain pergi Umrah...dgn niat supaya Allah bagi petunjuk dan hidayah.... Ok, terang2 Allah dah ketemukan Ain and Adam kat tanah suci....so petunjuk apa lagi yang dier nak,,,? Kalo camtuh takyah laaa penat2 berdoa...sebab end up ikut kata hati Ain jugak...walaupun terang2an Allah dah bg hidayah..

Sound like aku agak emo jer.....tak lah emo...kecewa...sebab aku tak paham kenapa watak dier mcm tuh....

" Ain Hawani seorang perempuan yang ada matlamat dalam hidup and well educated tapi bodoh dan keras hati....??? "

Owh lagi satu, pasal Che' Ted....benci giler ngan Adam kannnn, tapi tak dihumban plak teddy bear tuh. Dipeluk2 lagi ada...so apakahhhh...?? Kadang rasa cam tertipu dan diperbodoh2 kan!

Mmg laaa cliche cerita nie - end up Ain lembut hati jugak. Nak tunjukkan lah Adam mmg lelaki yang sgt mulia sebab sanggup menunggu cinta dari Ain....hummmmmmm.

Move on people....!!!

Tuh pasal laaa jadi drama kan...berjela2 and dragging..heheee. No offense to peminat2 tegar A&H....
Cuma watak Ain agak tak jive....kesimpulan yg aku buat " pandai tapi bodoh!"

Itu jer laaa yang tak puas hati. Lain sumer okay. Again....no offense people :P

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Kate Middleton look-alike

Which one is the real Duchess of Cambridge ?

The left one of the right one ...??

I bet it's quite confusing...but the real Kate is on your RIGHT...that's right on your RIGHT! From this angle it may be quite confusing

" Heidi Agan, 32, looks so much like Kate Middleton that the mom of two decided to quit her waitressing job at Frankie and Bennie's, a TGIF-like '50s style restaurant chain in England, to work full-time as a Royal look-alike. The move made for a significant bump in pay: From $9.75 an hour to about $1,050 per appearance."

But from this angle you can tell the difference ...

Obviously the eye and hair are different .... but hey she's making money from it !

Source : http://shine.yahoo.com/photos/waitress-quits-her-job-become-slideshow/-photo-2509082-180400085.html

 

 

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Why Men want SEX and Women need LOVE ...

Another book finished - Solving the mystery of Attraction " Why Men want SEX and Women need LOVE. Written by Allan and Barbara Pease. I have another 2 books written by them, gonna read it soon.

Sorry about the picture quality. Pakai camera phone jer nie...

So, what the book is all about....? Well I can say, it answers my questions about men :) ...

To find true happiness and compatibility with the opposite sex, first we need to learn how the brain is actually works!

Simple example :

What women really want : to be loved, adored, respected, trusted, needed, pampered, praised, hugged, complimented, supported, consoled, charmed, protected, embraced, worshiped

What men really want : tickets for the finals game

And obviously, men don't need love to have sex. They can segment their brain for sex or love. Compared to women, in order to have sex they need to be in love. It's actually how our brain works....it's in the genes from our ancestors.....

It is a good book I can say....as it reveal the truth about how men and women can really get along.

Rating : 7.5/10

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Hantaran buat sendiri....

Yer...hantaran harituh semuanyer aku buat sendiri....

Last minute...! Aku siap amek cuti Khamis and Jumaat tuh sebab nak siapkan hantaran punyer pasal......And actually it't took me about 1 and half days nak siapkan....

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Menu berbuka....

I usually practice this with my dear friend - Elly....

Hahahahaha...aper dier...? It's actually tukar exchange menu nak masak aper.... ahahahahhaha :P

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L-Glutathione Side Effect...

One of my friend promote this beauty product online.... Usually i'm not easily eager to try out on the beauty product - especially yang tah haper2 brand nie kan.

Ohh well, nak jadi cerita....I just run through about this product, the testimonial and all the images - before and after trying this product.

What triggers me is tat.....

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When your other half is gone…

She’s still young, 30 years old wifey….with 2 years old daughter

And she just lost her husband yesterday, aged 36. Al-fatihah....

I dunno what advise to give her….since none of us have experienced that...

When I received the SMS yesterday….I’m really shocked…terkejut kejap…macam tak nak percaya that my close friend is now a widow…Mmg aku terduduk sekejap, termenung dan berfikir. It’s unexpected..and so sudden..

First time in my life…..aku rasa mandi cam tak basah

Last time spoken to arwah is early November when we celebrate his daughter’s birthdayLast time I met him is last Tuesday….itupon from far while me and elly lepak kat Kopitiam cyberjaya

And yesterday he left us all at 5.30am….his wife Amiza, her daughter Sarra, his friends and family…

And today is his 36^th birthday. To harris izham, happy birthday….we will celebrate and cherish ur life here…..U have fun up there… :)

Ok, that’s the intro….

What I want to share is when you have lost you companionship. Half of you is gone…

You are missing a good friend, a partner in crime, a husband, a leader, a sleeping partner, your strength,…seesssshhhh, I can’t ever think of that….And I knew, it’s hard for her to go through this…

When nite comes, u’re sleeping alone…no one beside you for you to kiss and cuddle

And when the morning comes, there’s no one to greet you “ good morning, sayang “. And when you dressed up to office – no one to comment on you appearance - Sayang, how do I look…? Ok tak pakai baju nie..?

And during the day, there’s no one to SMS – Sayang, u dah makan..? Sayang, u kat ner…? Sayang, I will be back late, still in the meeting. Sayang, mtg nie boring laaa, Miss you..!

The hardest part..is when you have to sleep alone, staring to all his belongings – his shirt, toothbrush, try to find his smell on the pillow and blanket…

Ya Allah….seriously it’s toughhhh….

And what happened – when one night, you are not in the good terms with your partner. And because you are angry with him….you disregard to tell him how much you love him, he’s the best man ever and you are being thankful for having him in your life….and the next morning…he’s gone…!!!!

OMG…..you’ll be in regrets forever…!!!

So to all my friends out there….if you adore your partner, love and forgive your partner endlessly. If possible, kalo boleh…time nak tido tuh…we are in a good terms with our partner. Let him know how much you love him, how much you care for him, ask forgiveness from him.. cause sometime we take things for granted guessing that tomorrow we will make up, assuming that esok2 ilang lah merajuk tuh, ilang lah marah tuh….. No, please don’t….cause we will never know what will happened tomorrow….. and you dun want to live in regrets...

p/s : Dear Amiza, I know it's not easy for you. It will takes some time for you to pull through all this.You need to go through this slowly, day by day...one step at a time. If you need any help just let us know...Will be there for you, that's what good friend are for...

The feeling of missing him can never be replace......but through out the time the feeling will pass and you will move on. Be strong, be tough for lil' Sarra...We love you...!!

Harris is already free.....We just awaits for our time to be free........But in mean time, the dance floor is ours. What are you waiting for....Let's dance babe....!!!

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Persepsi masyarakat......

Dalam minggu nie ajer.....2 kali aku dengar dalam berita kes buang anak.. 1 kes jumpa mayat baby yang hampir hancur kat tempat buang sampah, satu lagi orang tinggalkan depan rumah....

Hummmmm......my personal view, aku tak salahkan pompuan tuh 100%...

Kalau lah persepsi masyarakat terhadap anak luar nikah tak seburuk itu.....aku rasa insyaallah mak tuh boleh survive besarkan anak tuh...

Biasa laaa...persepi masyarakat....

" Ehhh, jgn kawan ngan dier...anak luar nikah "
" Tah dari mane asal keturunan, mak bapak dier kiter tak tau "
" Nie laaa pompuan yg aku cakap harituh, mengandung anak luar nikah "
" Penat2 aku lahirkan kau, skang kau conteng arang kat muka aku. Kalau aku tau cam nie....kecik2 lagi kau dah aku bunuh...."

See, betapa berat nyer persepsi masyarakat......nak menanggung tomahan orang, cakap2 orang tuh yang buatkan pompuan tuh takder semangat...

Siapa masyarakat...? Hebat sangat ker masyarakat nie....??
Masyarakat tuh orang jugak....manusia...manusia okay...

Hebat sangat ker manusia nie.....?? Tak..
Tuhan lagi hebat kan....

Jadi kenapa nak hukum orang2 macam nie...? Kenapa perlu dilemparkan tomahan yang bukan2... Hebat sangatkah persepi masyrakat nie....?? Siapa kita ( manusia) itu nak judge orang lain...nak ckp anak luar nikah tak baik, pompuan tuh tak baik...siapa kita...siapa...??

Ok lah, bukan nak mengalakkan lagi untuk orang2 nie berkhalwat and buat maksiat....tapi pernah tak terlintas difikiran kita...mungkin pompuan2 nie adalah mangsa rogol..C'mon laaaa kes rogol kat M'sia nie berlambak2 kan.....so, kenapa nak salahkan pompuan tuh jer

So, haruslah kan...pompuan tuh cam nak giler kan....dah laaa mangsa rogol, dapat pulak anak luar nikah...pastuh org pandang hina kat anak luar nikah, pompuan yang kena rogol....Bagi aku, mmg agak logik laaaa perempuan tuh buat macam tuh....Sbb future dier dah hitam, takde harapan sebab cakap2 orang, persepi orang. Bukan kena kat dier jer, tapi kat anak dier jugak.....and for sure, satu keturunan lah orang pandang hina...cam ader penyakit berjangkit plak kan

Mungkin ada pompuan2 nie yang dah terlanjur, menyesal..dan ingin kembali pada masyrakat, mula hidup baru.....tapi memandangkan persepsi orang, pandangan masyarakat....hancur luluh laaa dier nak besarkan anak dalam tanggapan masyarakat yg sangat jijik....

Kenapa kita tak boleh nak support, berfikiran terbuka....and change our perception. At least, kita dah kurangkan risiko baby kena buang...and nasib pompuan tuh pun terbela

Buat maksiat, berzina.....itu dosa dier ngan Tuhan. Insyaallah Tuhan akan ampunkan...Tuhan kan Maha Penyanyang...

Kita sebagai manusia.....berbuat baik laaa kepada manusia. Tak perlu berperasangka buruk kat orang, nak cakap bukan2 kan...sebab kita tak layak..!!!

Pikirkan2 kan lah....if Tuhan leh terima even pelacur, pembunuh pun....kenapa tidak kita..? Nasib orang2 cam nie, perlu dibela...bukan merendah2kan mereka, dan pandang jijik dan hina..

So, change our perception....After all it's only our perception, how we see things....our view. Benda yang buruk dimata kita, belum tentu buruk di mata Tuhan.....


If only I can change their perspective....

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Women...

Just to share this with all my girlfrens....

Women are complex creatures

If you kiss her, you are not a gentleman. If you don't, you are not a man.
If you praise her, she thinks you are lying. If you don't, you are good for nothing.
If you agree to all her likes, you are a wimp. If you don't, you are not understanding.
If you visit her often, she thinks it is boring. If you don't, she accuses you of double-crossing.
If you are well dressed, she says you are a playboy. If you don't, you are a dull boy.
If you are jealous, she says it's bad. If you don't, she thinks you do not love her.
If you attempt a romance, she says you didn't respect her. If you don't, she thinks you do not like her.
If you are a minute late, she complains it's hard to wait. If she is late, she says that's a girl's way.

If you visit another man, you're not putting in "quality time". If she is visited by another woman, "oh it's natural, we are girls"
If you kiss her once in a while, she professes you are cold. If you kiss her often, she yells that you are taking advantage.
If you fail to help her in crossing the street, you lack ethics. If you do, she thinks it's just one of men's tactics for seduction.
If you stare at another woman, she accuses you of flirting. If she is stared by other men, she says that they are just admiring.
If you talk, she wants you to listen. If you listen, she wants you to talk.

In short: So simple, yet so complex. So weak, yet so powerful. So confusing, yet so desirable. So damning, yet so wonderful ... WOMEN!

"We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly"

p/s..... I came to agree.... ader btolnyer jugak....Bukan lelaki jer susah nak paham perempuan..kadang aku pun susah nak paham perempuan lain jugak...ehehehhee

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Women driver and Car....

I was driving alone last night, back from the office when I suddenly heard something strange from outside the car. I slow down the car and pulled down the window. I thought maybe something like plastic was stucked to the tyre.

As I remembered...I do hit something, but not something big like a bar of wood, steel or a big hole...cause I'm on the middle of lane. Morever, it was dark and I can't see cleary if I hit a big nail or metal spike.

I continued driving and as the time passed by, the sound from the tyre are getting louder and louder.... I slowed down and try to adjust my stering....The stering was still OK but I can sensed something really strange at the tyre... not sure either it is back or front tyre

I drove slowly and find a clear place with a shed of light. I pulled over....and pushed the hazard light button. I'm not sure weather I should went out from the car or not. Just imagine, I was all alone at 8.45 pm at cyberjaya highway.... It really creeps me out....me alone, dark, bushes and car speedily passes by.

I was brave enough to get out from the car.... Bismillahhirrahmannirrohim.....First I went to check out the front tyre...seems Ok with me. However, one of the back tyre was punctured..

So...I went back inside the car. Thinking what to do... Should I called hubby?? ...He was in KL meeting some friend. I don't want to bother him, since it just a small matter.

And it is not far from my house. Only 5 minutes drive. I need to find nearest petrol pump to pump some air. So what should I do..???

1. Went to the Petronas station near my housing area. ( 10 mins )
- I need to stop at two traffic lights and the road has a lot of corner.

2. Went to the Esso station just before Puchong toll ( 5 mins ).
- The road is straight. But I need to pay RM2 for toll to U turn.

I think the best way is to take option 2 and I drove slowly to the petrol pump. By the time, the sound form the tyre was louder and i can felt that the stering was harder to control. In my heart, oooohh...I pray to God that I can make it to the petrol pump safely. The most thing I feared was the tyre might burst out and the sportsrim is damaged... then it would be another problem...

Alhamdulillah....slowly I make it to the Esso station and went straight to pumped the air. The tyre was really flat...... As I pumped out the air, it went out through a hole....Perhaps, i've hit I something hard like nail or metal. No point in pumping the air if the air still came out....so I've decided to change to spare tyre.

I move foward, as there is a car waiting for their turn. Open the car booth and find the spare tyre. Luckily it was my mom's car ( quite brand new) and everything is well equipt with the tools and the spare tyre was in good condition...

I asked an assistant from the men driving the car behind me. Luckily, he was willing the help me out.

So....there I was....watching this kind men helping me changed the tyre. He do explained to me a few steps to change it. How to handle the jack, to open the nut...and everything about it...Hmmm, next time if it happend to me again, hopefully i'm be able to do it...

After everything was settled...I give this kind men a few RM for helping me out....as duit minyak laaaa kater org....But he refused to have it and said to me that in future if something like this happen to his wife, hopefully somebody will be able to help her out also..... I just smiled and say thank you for his helped. I didn't managed to asked for his name....and we went away....

Inside my heart, I just pray to god for his help.....Only god can repay him for his kindness. I also feel proud of myself, I can handle this situation very well......

" Ya Allah ya tuhan, ko murahkan lah rezeki nya dan permudahkan dia ketika dia dalam kesusahan "......AMIN

MORAL OF THE STORY

1. Don't go back late from office - especially if you are alone
2. Make sure, the spare tyre is in good condition
3. Make sure the tool is well equipt
4. While driving, make sure you give 150% concentration. Make sure your eyes are on the road.
Don't eat, don't SMS - you might hit something and you cannot avoid it.

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It feels soooooo GOOD..!!

Yeahh....back to the office after the short break from workload. Was on leave for 3 days ( Thu, Fri and Mon ) - so all together i get 5 days of break including the weekend....hehheee !!! Return to office with fresh and clear mind, new energy and spirit...

During the break, really occupied the time to relax - spoiled and pampered myself.....hihiihihh Just having fun and taking my own sweet time to loosen up.

I didn't go for any vacation...just stayed at home. Wake up early, made breakfast for hubby and spend the rest of time watched my favourite DVD movies....and by evening cooked for dinner.

The best part was - I have one day called " beauty day ". Went to SPA for body massage and facial treatment. I even had my hair washed and steamed...eehehheee. Ohhh... it was sooo goooddd. All of this treatment for less than RM 200. Yessss....RM 200, quite cheap rite ? Believe it..... At other places you can get only one treatment either hair / facial / massage for less than RM 200. But for me...I can get all the treatment for less that RM 200..!!! Yahooooo..... Indulge myself and yet still cost saving..

So all ladies out there....I recommend you this place at Puchong, opposite the Giant Supermarket. They have this promotion - for the first time customer only - you can have shoulder massage and facial treatment for RM 49.90 each. If you want to upgrade for full body massaage it will cost you only RM 89.90

Trust me....you worth it. The service was excellent and you will satisfied. You can feel the result right away - especially the facial treatment. Been for a few facial treatment before...but this one is more better. The place is exclusive and man are not allowed to enter. You will feel comfortable as soon as you enter the door step. So cosy....and it feels like home......

Wish I have this kind of treatment every month...eehehhe

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